3 Steps to Implement Right Away
You will need proven advice to help you successfully repair your relationship with your ex-boyfriend. You should, first of all, avoid begging or pleading with your boyfriend to come back.
This is a mistake that most women make, but you should avoid this at all cost. This behavior is quite understandable because you are emotionally upset and you desperately want your man to come back, and this is the only way you know to get him back.
But if you really want to be successful in getting him back, you need to add a lot more planning and strategy into your efforts than blindly making an emotional attempt at persuading him to come back.
3 Steps to make your ex boyfriend come back to you:
Keep in touch with his friends
Although it might seem a little sneaky, it will do your relationship with him a lot of good for two reasons. First and foremost, the relationship that you develop with people whom he is close with will have a therapeutic effect on you.
Even though your relationship with him is going through a rough patch, you can find peace and solace in the fact that those around him are still close to you. Secondly, your close association with them will keep you active in his thoughts. Your name is bound to come up in the conversation they have with him. Even though you may not directly meet him, he will still know what is happening with you through his friends that you are close with.
Go on a vacation for a couple of weeks.
The change of scenery will do you a lot of good. Most women assume that they need to stay put and keep pleading with him until he relents. The idea of leaving the place for a while hardly ever crops up in their mind. But you can safely go somewhere for a few weeks to clear your mind and your emotions. Being away for a little while will do you and your relationship a lot of good. He will also have time to think things through instead of anticipating your next call and thinking about what excuse he needs to give you now.
When it comes to mending your relationship, don’t start where you left off.
Start your relationship afresh. Think of it as a new relationship that you are starting with your boyfriend. Let nothing from the past dictate how this relationship should go. Develop a brand new friendship with him. At first keep it just that – a friendship.
Do not initiate anything romantic. Become a good buddy and see what you can do to make his life better and constructive. Help him to see you as a close friend that he cannot do without. Once the relationship becomes strong, he will automatically initiate the romance on his own. Wait patiently until that point.