Instant Strategies to Get Your Man Back
If you are determined to get your man back, there is nothing in the world that can stand in your way. We sometimes are the biggest stumbling blocks in our own lives. Our negative thoughts and our defeatist attitudes are the ones that keep us from getting the things that we desire the most in our lives. So just remember that you can have whatever you desire as long as you don’t become the hindrance to achieving your goal.
Here are 3 effective steps that you can use to get your man back
Understand that men usually don’t have a clue as to how you feel when they dump you
He probably wouldn’t have dumped you if he really could feel the agony you are going through right now. And most men would not be able to handle that kind of rejection themselves. Most of them would be totally devastated by a rejection. So what you need to do now is rock his boat a little to capture his attention.
You need to send him a short handwritten note saying that you agree to the breakup. Tell him that you thought about it for a long time and you feel that a breakup is the best thing for both of you. Now this is a very subtle way of giving him a taste of his own medicine. Without saying it in words, you are in a sense turning around and dumping him. This is when his attitude towards the whole breakup episode will begin to change.
Nobody likes to be around a person who is mourning.
It will drain them emotionally. If you want your man to find you attractive, you need to become a cheerful person. So after you have written that note and sent it to him, forget about the breakup and look forward to the reunion. Change your entire outlook and become a positive person. Go out with your other friends and have a good time.
Hang around with cheerful people and freshen up your mind. Get rid of all the negativity and flush out all the gloom and unhappiness. Once your inner self becomes beautiful, that beauty will start radiating on the outside. Without your own knowledge, you will become more attractive in more ways than one. People will start liking your company.
After sending the note to him, silently vanish from the scene.
He will want to contact you regarding the note, but go into hiding for about two or three weeks.
Don’t call, message or email him during this period. Let your absence make him think about you all the time. By the end of these three weeks, we will be dying to meet you. This is when you need to plan on meeting him.